Ep.10 | How to Stop Self Sabotage and Step Into Your Queen Energy with Relationship Coach Zara J

Relationship dynamics and energetics are happening all around us, all the time, whether it’s the relationship you have with a partner, a friend, a family member, or even your business. During the conversation with relationship coach, Zara J, we get real deep, real quick, and explore the parallels in the dating world and the business world.

Zara unpacks 3 of the most common self-sabotaging patterns that we tend to play out in relationships of all kinds, along with associated mother & father wounds, and chakra blockages that come with them. But that ain’t it, we also dive into how Zara followed her curiosity and listened to her intuition which brought her down a path that resulted in running a more aligned business and working with them soulmate kinda clients.

Even if you’re not currently in the dating world, this conversation is SUPER enlightening. Both Shay & I had SO MANY real-time “ah-ha” moments, and we hope that listening to this fun conversation provides you with the same :)

It’s kinda hard to believe we got allllll of this magic in one episode…

Listen in and let us know what you think!

 

OVERVIEW OF THE EPISODE:

• 3 of the most common self-sabotaging patterns that we tend to play out in relationships (Hint: Trophy, Love Me, Adapters).

• How relationships in all different areas (business, personal, romantic) all get created by the same energetics.

• How people that identify with being a “smart girl” can start to explore and lean into their feminine, and why it’s so damn powerful.

• The distinct parallels between the dating world and learning how to sell effectively in your business

• How Zara allowed her curiosity to guide her into creating a business that feels more aligned & fulfilled, which resulted in her feeling more harmonious and secure.

• What is the “wounded princess” and the ”captivating queen”? How you start to recognize and shift.

• How subconscious stories and projections play out regardless of the relationship we’re in.

• How having blockages in certain chakras can relate to relationship patterns.

• How mother & father wounds, plus inner child healing plays into your subconscious patterns and projections as an adult in a relationship (even if you came from a 2 parent household or a peaceful & happy home).

• Why finding examples of what you want & being in a community can start changing the script in your head

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

• Courtship Code Podcast

About Zara:

After spending many years as a Matchmaker — Relationship Coach Zara J is helping women to meet and marry their ideal partners. Over those years saw a consistent pattern that helped to crack the code when it came to helping smart, successful, and ambitious women who are tired of having no luck in the love department. The Captivating Courtship Code teaches smart, high-achieving women to break relationship patterns using a custom match game plan to heal, attract and commit in less time.

Website: https://captivatingcourtship.com/

 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship/

 

LEARN MORE & CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST:

• Curiouslyguided.com

• Instagram.com/curiouslyguided

   

CONNECT WITH THE HOSTS SHAY + MARIAH:

• Websites: saleswithshay.com & mariahmagazine.com

• Instagram: @shayheyshay & @mariahmagazineco